Explore The Enneagram
What Is the Enneagram?
The Enneagram is a powerful framework that reveals the underlying motivations and behaviors that shape how you interact with the world. It highlights nine unique types, each offering a fresh perspective on how you think, feel, and act. Itās not about labeling you; itās about uncovering the reasons behind your reactions and choices, helping you live a life that aligns with who you truly are.
Each type reflects a specific set of core motivations and fears. Understanding the type you lead from helps you tap into your strengths, recognize blind spots, and face challenges with greater clarity. Whether youāre focused on personal growth, improving relationships, or becoming a stronger leader, the Enneagram gives you the insight to grow, strengthen connections, and lead with purpose.


A Brief History of the Enneagram
The Enneagramās roots stretch back thousands of years, influenced by spiritual, philosophical, and psychological traditions. While its exact origins remain a bit of a mystery, the modern Enneagram emerged in the 20th century, thanks to the work of thinkers like George Gurdjieff, Oscar Ichazo, and Claudio Naranjo. Gurdjieff, a deeply curious man, explored the symbol in his teachings on psychology, spirituality, and self-awareness. Later, in the 1960s and 70s, Oscar Ichazo and Claudio Naranjo connected the Enneagram with psychological insights, shaping it into the framework we use today.
In more recent years, thought leaders like Helen Palmer and David Daniels have expanded its reach, turning the Enneagram into a practical tool for understanding human behavior and promoting personal growth. Today, itās recognized worldwide as a powerful way to explore the core motivations, blind spots, and patterns that shape how we live and relate to others.

Ready to Begin?
The next step in your Enneagram journey is figuring out which type you lead from. Sure, there are quick quizzes out there, but honestlyātheyāre pretty general.
They skim the surface, asking basic questions that donāt dig into the real, messy stuff that makes you who you are. Those quizzes can miss whatās most importantāyour core motivations, the driving forces behind why you do what you do.
And thatās what really matters when youāre trying to pinpoint which Enneagram type you lead from.
At WILDD Hearts, we go deeper. We use the Enneagram Narrative tradition, which involves a one-on-one interview to narrow down your Enneagram type. This isnāt some cookie-cutter quiz. Youāll get the chance to talk about who you really areāthe patterns that show up in your life, the stuff that keeps you stuck, and what truly drives you. Itās an opportunity to tell your story, not just answer questions. Through this conversation, we help you peel back the layers, digging into the motivations behind your behavior.
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Hereās the important part: while weāll guide you, help you see the patterns, and point you in the right direction, the final call is yours. The Enneagram is all about uncovering your core motivations, not just slapping a label on you. Youāll walk away with a clearer understanding of why you do what you do, and from there, youāll identify which type you lead from. Itās not about us telling youāitās about you uncovering it for yourself.
Ready to get real and explore? Letās do this together.
The Nine Types of The Enneagram
Enneagram Type 1: The Reformer
Principled, purposeful, self-controlled, perfectionistic
Reformers are idealistic and hold themselves to high standards of integrity and excellence. They have a keen sense of right and wrong and are driven to improve themselves and the world around them. Reformers can be critical of themselves and others when things don't meet their expectations. Reformers are organized and reliable, often excelling in roles that require responsibility and a strong sense of ethics. While they hold themselves and others to high standards, their dedication to improvement can be inspiring.Ā Ā
Core Motivation:
Type 1s are driven by a strong desire to be good, ethical, and morally right. They strive for integrity and aim to improve themselves and the world around them, often holding themselves to high standards.
Basic Fears:
Being corrupt, flawed, or morally defective
Basic Desires:
To be good, have integrity, and maintain balance
Path to Growth:
Embrace imperfections and practice self-compassion, understanding that personal worth does not depend on being perfect.

Meet Alex, a Type 1
I'm Alex, and from an early age, I've been driven by a strong commitment to doing my best and striving for what's right. Guided by a deep sense of fairness and integrity, I take pride in being thorough and accountable. People often recognize my diligence and respect for high standards, noting my strong sense of responsibility. For me, doing the right thing is essential, and I believe in adhering to rules that promote fairness and justice.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to see things in black and white, which can make it challenging to accept imperfectionsāboth in myself and others. My strong inner critic constantly pushes me to improve, which can be exhausting and sometimes leads to frustration when things don't meet my high expectations. This inner voice is harshest on myself, but it can also spill over into my interactions with others, making me seem critical or judgmental.
Others have conveyed that my high standards can sometimes come across as sharp or harsh, especially when I feel resentful about unmet expectations. I've been told that I need to be kinder to myself and others, understanding that perfection is an impossible goal. In my relationships, I value honesty and integrity, striving to balance my drive for excellence with acceptance and compassion. It's a constant effort to embrace the idea that good enough can sometimes be just thatāenough.Ā
Does this sound like you? If youāre constantly striving for perfection and feel a strong sense of duty, you might be a Type 1.ā
Enneagram Type 2: The Helper
Generous, demonstrative, people-pleasing, possessive
Helpers are empathetic, sincere, and deeply involved in the lives of others. They are motivated by a need to be loved and needed, often putting others' needs before their own. Helpers are nurturing and supportive, always ready to offer a helping hand or a listening ear.
However, they can become possessive and struggle with setting boundaries. If you find joy in making others happy but sometimes neglect your own needs, you might be a Type 2.
Core Motivation:
Type 2s are driven by a deep desire to feel loved and appreciated. They seek to be needed and to create close, meaningful connections with others, often finding their sense of worth in the help and care they provide.
Basic Fears:
Being unwanted or unworthy of love
Basic Desires:
To feel loved, needed, and appreciated
Path to Growth:
Learn to recognize and attend to their own needs, setting healthy boundaries while understanding that their worth is not solely tied to what they do for others.

Meet Jessica, a Type 2
Hi, Iām Jessica, and Iām an Enneagram Type 2. Iāve always found joy in helping others and feel deeply connected to the emotions and needs of those around me. People often describe me as warm and nurturing, appreciating my ability to offer comfort and support. I thrive on being part of a team, finding purpose in the camaraderie and connection that comes from working closely with others.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to put othersā needs before my own. My optimism shines through in my belief in the potential of others, and I derive great satisfaction from supporting their growth and success. However, I often neglect my well-being as I focus on taking care of those around me.
Others have conveyed that my desire to help can sometimes overstep boundaries. While I am known for my generosity, Iāve learned that I struggle to say no, which sometimes leads to feeling taken advantage of. Receiving compliments is difficult for me because Iām more comfortable giving than receiving.
In my relationships, I value closeness and connection. Iām constantly working on balancing my desire to help with the need to set healthy boundaries and care for myself. Itās an ongoing journey, but Iām learning that setting limits and honoring my own needs allows me to be the supportive and caring person I want to be.Ā Ā
Does this sound like you? If you find joy in making others happy but sometimes neglect your own needs, you might be a Type 2.
Enneagram Type 3: The Achiever
Adaptive, excelling, driven, image-conscious
Achievers are success-driven, goal-oriented, and highly focused on getting things done. Their core motivation is to feel valuable and admired through their accomplishments. They are energetic and adaptable, excelling in various areas of life while being able to present themselves confidently in different situations. However, Achievers can become overly concerned with their image and how others perceive them, sometimes losing sight of their authentic selves.
Core Motivation:
Type 3s are driven by a strong desire to feel valuable and successful. They seek recognition for their accomplishments and work hard to achieve their goals, often equating their self-worth with their external success.
Basic Fears:
Being seen as worthless or failing to achieve
Basic Desires:
To feel valuable, accomplished, and admired
Path to Growth:
Cultivate authenticity by focusing on self-awareness and personal worth beyond external achievements, learning to value themselves for who they are rather than just what they do.

Meet Michael, a Type 3
Hi, Iām Michael, and Iām an Enneagram Type 3. From an early age, Iāve been driven by the desire to achieve and succeed. I set high goals for myself and work hard to reach them. People often describe me as ambitious and energetic, appreciating my ability to excel in different areas of life. I thrive on recognition and validation, which motivates me to keep going.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to present a polished and successful image to the world. Iām deeply focused on my goals and tend to measure my worth by what I accomplish. While this drive can be incredibly rewarding, it also makes me feel like Iām never doing enough. Iām always striving for more, which can sometimes lead to overworking and neglecting other aspects of my life.
Others have conveyed that while my ambition is inspiring, it can make me seem overly competitive or focused on image. Iāve learned that I need to be mindful of how my drive for success impacts my relationships and personal well-being. Itās important for me to remember that my true worth comes from who I am, not just what I achieve.
In my relationships, I value efficiency and effectiveness, often encouraging others to reach their full potential. Iām working on balancing my ambition with authentic connections, realizing that being present and genuine with the people I care about is just as important as achieving my goals. Finding this balance helps me maintain my well-being while continuing to push myself forward.
Does this sound like you? If youāre always striving for success and feel validated through your achievements, you might be a Type 3.
Enneagram Type 4: The Individualist
Expressive, dramatic, self-absorbed, temperamental
Individualists are sensitive and introspective, often feeling different from others. With a rich inner life, they are deeply attuned to their emotions and seek to express themselves creatively. Individualists are on a quest to understand their identity and find significance in their uniqueness. While they are known for their creativity and emotional depth, they can also struggle with feelings of envy and inadequacy, often feeling misunderstood.
Core Motivation:
Type 4s are driven by a desire to discover their unique identity and personal significance. They often seek deeper meaning in their experiences and relationships, aiming to understand themselves and express their individuality.
Basic Fears:
Feeling insignificant, having no identity, or being overlooked
Basic Desires:
To find their true self and feel a deep sense of significance and authenticity
Path to Growth:
Focus on cultivating inner stability and appreciating the present moment, rather than constantly seeking what's missing or idealizing the past or future.

Meet Deidra, a Type 4
Hi, Iām Deidra, and Iām an Enneagram Type 4. Iāve always felt a deep desire to understand and express my true self. From a young age, Iāve been drawn to the arts and creative pursuits, finding unique ways to convey my emotions and experiences. People often describe me as introspective and expressive, appreciating my ability to see beauty in the world and articulate it in meaningful ways.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to delve deeply into my emotions and seek authenticity in everything I do. Iām sensitive and attuned to the nuances of my feelings, which helps me create and connect on a profound level. But, this sensitivity can also lead to feelings of melancholy or envy when I perceive others as having something I lack. Iām always striving to understand my identity and find my place in the world, which is both inspiring and challenging.
Others have conveyed that my intense emotions and focus on individuality can sometimes make me seem distant or overly absorbed in my own world. Iāve learned that while my introspection is valuable, itās important to stay connected with others and recognize the common ground we share. Accepting that Iām enough as I am, without needing to stand out or be special, is a big part of my journey.
In my relationships, I value depth and authenticity, always seeking to form connections that go beyond the surface. Iām working on balancing my need for self-expression with being open to othersā perspectives. Embracing my individuality while finding ways to relate to and appreciate those around me helps me maintain fulfilling and genuine relationships.
Does this sound like you? If you often feel like youāre on a quest to find your true self and feel misunderstood, you might be a Type 4.
Enneagram Type 5: The Investigator
Perceptive, innovative, secretive, isolated
Investigators are cerebral and highly independent, driven by a desire to understand the world and gather knowledge. They value their privacy and often prefer observing from the sidelines rather than actively participating. Investigators are known for their deep curiosity and perceptive insights, but they can also become detached, retreating into their minds and isolating themselves from others.
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Type 5s are driven by a strong desire to feel competent and self-sufficient. They seek knowledge and mastery to feel secure in their abilities.
Basic Fears:
Being seen as helpless, incompetent, or dependent on others
Basic Desires:
To feel capable, skilled, and knowledgeable
Path to Growth:
Learn to engage more deeply with the world, embracing relationships and emotional connections as important sources of fulfillment and balance.
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Meet Steve, a Type 5
Hi, Iām Steve, and Iām an Enneagram Type 5. Iāve always had a thirst for knowledge and a strong desire to understand how the world works. From a young age, I found comfort in books and learning, often retreating into my own world to explore complex ideas. People frequently describe me as insightful and observant, and they appreciate my ability to notice patterns and connections that others might miss.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to gather information and seek understanding. I value my independence and often need time alone to recharge and process my thoughts. This desire for autonomy can sometimes lead me to withdraw from social interactions, as I feel most at ease when I have the space to think deeply. While my quest for knowledge is fulfilling, it can also make me feel isolated or disconnected from others.
Others have expressed that my need for solitude sometimes comes across as aloof or distant. Iāve learned that while my independence is important, itās also crucial to engage with the people around me and share my insights. Iām working on finding a balance between my need for privacy and my desire to connect with others.
In my relationships, I value intellectual stimulation and meaningful conversations. Iām striving to balance my need for knowledge with being open to othersā emotions and experiences. By sharing what I learn and being present in my relationships, I can create deeper connections and enrich both my understanding and my interactions with those around me.
Does this sound like you? If youāre intensely curious and prefer solitude to recharge, you might be a Type 5.
Enneagram Type 6: The Loyalist
Engaging, responsible, anxious, suspicious
Loyalists are dependable and focused on building security in their lives. They are motivated by a need for safety and certainty, always planning ahead to prepare for potential challenges. While their commitment and sense of responsibility are strong,
Loyalists can also be prone to anxiety and doubt, often questioning themselves and others as they seek reassurance. They value trust and loyalty in relationships and tend to form close-knit bonds with those they trust.
Core Motivation:
Type 6s are driven by a deep desire to feel secure and supported. They seek guidance and assurance from others to maintain a sense of stability and safety.
Basic Fears:
Feeling unsafe, vulnerable, or without reliable support
Basic Desires:
To feel secure, protected, and guided
Path to Growth:
Develop greater self-confidence and learn to trust their own judgment and abilities, finding security from within rather than relying solely on external sources.

Meet Elaine, a Type 6
Hi, Iām Elaine, and Iām an Enneagram Type 6. Iāve always been focused on creating security and stability in my life. From a young age, Iāve felt most comfortable when I know what to expect and have a plan in place for whatever might happen. People often describe me as responsible and reliable, and they appreciate my ability to think ahead and prepare for any situation.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to question and anticipate potential problems. Iām constantly looking for ways to protect myself and those I care about, which can sometimes lead to feeling anxious or overwhelmed by all the āwhat-ifs.ā Iāve learned that while my cautious nature helps me stay prepared, it can also hold me back from trusting myself and embracing uncertainty.
Others have conveyed that my tendency to seek reassurance can sometimes come across as indecisive or doubtful. Iām working on building confidence in my own judgment and learning to trust others without needing constant confirmation. Itās important for me to find a balance between being cautious and taking action without letting fear drive my decisions.
In my relationships, I value loyalty and trust above all else. I seek connections that feel stable and dependable, and Iām always ready to support those I care about. Iām learning to let go of some of my need for control and to trust that things will be okay, even when I donāt have all the answers. This balance is key to helping me feel secure while also growing and taking risks.
Does this sound like you? If you often seek reassurance and feel a strong need for security, you might be a Type 6.
Enneagram Type 7: The Enthusiast
Optimistic, energetic, spontaneous, adventurous.
Enthusiasts are driven by a need for excitement and new experiences. They are optimistic and energetic, always looking for ways to keep life engaging and fun. Enthusiasts are quick to seize opportunities and embrace the unknown, but their constant search for stimulation can sometimes lead to scattered focus or unfinished commitments. They thrive on freedom and spontaneity, avoiding anything that feels limiting or mundane.
Core Motivation:
Type 7s are driven by a desire to feel fulfilled and content. They seek out exciting experiences and options, hoping to avoid feelings of deprivation or emotional discomfort.
Basic Fears:
Being deprived, trapped, or stuck in emotional pain
Basic Desires:
To feel satisfied, content, and free to pursue new experiences
Path to Growth:
Cultivate the ability to stay grounded in the present moment, embracing both joys and challenges without constantly seeking distraction or escape.

Meet Jordan, a Type 7
Hi, Iām Jordan, and Iām an Enneagram Type 7. Iāve always been driven by a desire for adventure and new experiences. From a young age, I sought out fun and excitement, constantly looking for ways to keep life interesting. People often describe me as energetic and optimistic, admiring my ability to see the bright side of any situation. I value freedom and spontaneity, and Iām always ready for the next big adventure.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to avoid pain and discomfort by staying busy and entertained. Iām always planning the next trip, project, or social event, which helps me stay positive but can also lead to scattered focus and unfinished commitments. My fear of being trapped in boredom or emotional pain drives me to seek constant stimulation. I love exploring new ideas, meeting new people, and experiencing as much of life as possible. My enthusiasm can be infectious, and I take pride in bringing joy and excitement to those around me.
Others have expressed concern that my relentless pursuit of happiness can sometimes seem avoidant or irresponsible. Iāve learned that while itās important to embrace joy and excitement, itās also crucial to face challenges and stay present in difficult moments. Iām working on finding a balance between seeking pleasure and managing my responsibilities.
In my relationships, I value fun and enthusiasm. I strive to create a sense of adventure and positivity for myself and those around me. By learning to appreciate the present moment and confront discomfort head-on, I can cultivate deeper connections and a more fulfilling, balanced life. Whether itās planning an impromptu road trip or discovering a hidden gem in the city, Iām always on the lookout for ways to make life more vibrant and exciting.
Does this sound like you? If youāre constantly seeking new adventures and avoiding boredom, you might be a Type 7.
Enneagram Type 8: The Challenger
Assertive, decisive, protective, confident.
Challengers are powerful, assertive, and often take on leadership roles. They are motivated by a need to be in control and protect themselves from vulnerability. With a strong sense of justice, they stand up for what they believe in, but their decisive nature can sometimes come across as confrontational or domineering. Challengers value autonomy and thrive in environments where they can take charge and make an impact.
Core Motivation:
Type 8s are driven by a desire to protect themselves and maintain control over their environment. They seek to assert their strength and autonomy, avoiding any situations where they might feel vulnerable or controlled by others.
Basic Fears:
Being harmed, controlled, or seen as weak
Basic Desires:
To protect themselves and remain in control of their own life
Path to Growth:
Learn to embrace vulnerability and practice compassion, recognizing that true strength can also come from openness and empathy.

Meet Taylor, a Type 8
Hi, Iām Taylor, and Iām an Enneagram Type 8. Iāve always been driven by a desire to be strong and assertive. From a young age, I felt the need to take charge and protect myself and others. People often describe me as confident and decisive, appreciating my ability to lead and stand up for what I believe in. I value power and autonomy, and Iām always ready to face challenges head-on.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to be direct and assertive. Iām fiercely independent and have a strong sense of justice, which drives me to confront injustices and fight for what I believe is right. This strength can be empowering, but it can also make me seem intimidating or confrontational. I donāt shy away from conflict, and I can be very protective of the people I care about, sometimes coming across as overly controlling.
Others have conveyed that my boldness can sometimes come across as aggressive or domineering. Iāve learned that while itās important to be strong and assertive, itās also crucial to be aware of how my intensity affects others. Finding a balance between being protective and being supportive is something Iām continually working on.
In my relationships, I value loyalty and honesty. I strive to create an environment where people feel safe and respected, and I expect the same in return. By learning to temper my assertiveness with empathy and understanding, I can foster deeper, more trusting connections. Whether itās leading a team at work or standing up for a friend, Iām always ready to take action and make things happen, bringing my full energy and passion to everything I do.
Does this sound like you? If youāre strong-willed and often take charge in situations, you might be a Type 8.
Enneagram Type 9: The Peacemaker
Receptive, reassuring, complacent, resigned
Peacemakers are easygoing and accepting, motivated by a desire for inner peace and harmony. They seek to avoid conflict and create a calm environment, often going along with others to maintain the peace. Peacemakers are supportive and see multiple perspectives, but they can sometimes neglect their own needs or become complacent to keep things running smoothly.
Core Motivation:
Type 9s are driven by a deep desire for inner peace and stability. They seek to maintain harmony in their environment and avoid conflict, striving to keep their lives free from disruption.
Basic Fears:
Experiencing loss, separation, or inner turmoil
Basic Desires:
To achieve inner stability, peace of mind, and harmony
Path to Growth:
Develop a stronger sense of self by asserting their own needs and recognizing their importance, rather than simply going along with others to keep the peace.

MeetĀ Margaret a Type 9
Hi, Iām Margaret, and Iām an Enneagram Type 9. Iāve always been driven by a desire for peace and harmony. From a young age, Iāve sought to create a calm and balanced environment, both for myself and those around me. People often describe me as easygoing and agreeable, admiring my ability to see multiple perspectives and avoid conflict. I value tranquility and unity, always striving to maintain a sense of inner and outer peace.
What I know about myself is that I have a natural inclination to avoid conflict and keep things harmonious. I often put othersā needs and desires before my own to maintain peace, which can sometimes lead to neglecting my own needs and suppressing my true feelings. I find comfort in routines and familiar environments, and I tend to go with the flow to avoid disruptions. My easygoing nature makes me a great mediator, but it can also make me seem passive or disengaged.
Others have conveyed that my desire to keep the peace can sometimes come across as complacent or indifferent. Iāve learned that while itās important to value harmony, itās also crucial to assert my own needs and opinions. Finding a balance between maintaining peace and being true to myself is something I continually work on.
In my relationships, I value stability and mutual respect. I strive to create a sense of calm and understanding, and I appreciate it when others do the same. By learning to express my own needs and stand up for myself, I can build stronger, more authentic connections. Whether itās diffusing a tense situation or offering a listening ear, Iām always there to bring a sense of peace and balance, ensuring that everyone feels heard and valued.
Does this sound like you? If you value tranquility and often put others' needs before your own to avoid conflict, you might be a Type 9.
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